The life of single B

Well I got engaged in Feb and lets just say in July that all ended. Don't get me wrong for one second me and my ex love each other very much but I do believe wrong timing. We've known each other for about 8 years almost. I realize that with a man you can't rush things, hell why would you want to rush love. Why not let it work it's magic. 2 friends of mine made the mistake of getting married early and I will keep their identity confidential. But they are both looking at divorce now. The thing is ladies you don't need a man to make you happy, or help you fulfill your goals in life. Let me ask you this..when you break up do you still know who you are? do you still have the same goals in life? do you continue with your hobbies? did you drop your hobbies when you got into a relationship? Truth is many of us lose ourselves when we get into a relationship. We get too concerned with our man and forget about us. I believe the main key to any relationship is to stay true to yourself. It doesn't mean you have to be selfish or anything it just means exactly what is says.